I’m always very happy whenever November 1st rolls around. That seems to be when it becomes socially acceptable to start talking about Thanksgiving.
It’s my favorite holiday, so I start talking about it, and planning it, long before now, but at least as of today it seems to be alright with everyone else.
We’ll be hosting an evening Thanksgiving meal at our house again this year. I’m still absolutely
loving the fact that Nick doesn’t have to work the holidays anymore. We’ll also be taking
Thanksgiving dinner to the local hospice house for lunch. I’ve been in touch with them, and they’ve said they’re happy for us to bring the meal. I’m always a little nervous that they’re going to say no, so I’m pretty excited that they said yes. They never really offer any feedback as to anything they especially liked or didn’t like, so I’m planning to stick with essentially the same menu and setup as the last two years. I’m assuming it isn’t broken, so I’m not going to try to fix it.
Occasionally someone will mention the costs associated with feeding a crowd, or with cooking two separate Thanksgiving dinners, so I thought that would be a good topic for a Thrifty Thursday post. I’ll just go ahead and get a few things out of the way.
First, I’m not breaking anything down by specific prices or numbers. This is mostly because I hate math. I mean, I really, really, really hate math. I enjoy blogging, so I’m not about to mix math in with it. It’s also because it’s just not accurate. A good price for something for me may be a terrible price on the same item for someone who lives in a different place, and an impossibly low, never going to find it priced like that for yet another person living in yet another place. I think general guidelines are probably just easier for everyone. And they don’t involve math!
Second, I know a lot of grocery stores are regional, so I realize you may not have the same ones in your area that I do. Again, it’s just meant to be a general idea of what works for me. I’m only naming specific stores in case any of you have the same ones available. I love Aldi. If you haven’t shopped at Aldi, give them a try, even if you’re not hosting Thanksgiving.
Lastly, if you’re hosting Thanksgiving, do what works for you and your guests. You may very well have different priorities. Don’t get caught up in trying to make it look like someone else’s ideal Thanksgiving.
All of that being said, here’s what we do to host Thanksgiving without going broke.
Start early. This is the time of year when grocery stores start putting the things you need for the holidays on sale. Pay attention to the sale ads, and get the things you need ahead of time, while they’re on a good sale. You probably won’t find butter cheaper than you will during the next few weeks. It’s also a great time to stock up on flour, sugar, nuts, and other baking essentials.
Shop around. If you’re fortunate enough to have a few different grocery stores near you, check everyone’s sale ads, even if you usually only shop at one. There’s likely going to be some competition among them to get you in the door, so if time and distance allow, consider buying the best priced items at each store. I typically shop at three different grocery stores every week to get the best prices on what we need.
Remember the main parts of Thanksgiving Dinner are relatively inexpensive. Fortunately for those of us who love Thanksgiving, the traditional dishes aren’t typically very expensive. Most grocery stores will price their turkeys very low this time of year, especially if you spend a certain amount in a single transaction. Potatoes and sweet potatoes are typically inexpensive anyway, and likely to be priced even lower leading up to Thanksgiving.
Buy store brands, or shop at Aldi. I typically never buy name brand flour or sugar, unless it happens to be on a great sale that makes it cheaper than the store brands or buying it at Aldi. I think there’s some difference if you’re buying something already prepared (salsa, cookies, etc),but when it comes to ingredients, the finished dish seems to come out the same, whether you’ve used name brand ingredients or not. I’ve been using Aldi brand cheese, evaporated milk, and pasta in my
macaroni and cheese for years. The same goes for their canned pumpkin in my
pumpkin pie.
I will say, though, that in my experience, Aldi isn’t the cheapest place to buy the
turkey. Overall, I haven’t been terribly impressed with their meat prices. Here, Harris Teeter or Ingles typically have the best prices on turkeys.
Look into the price matching policy at the store(s) you regularly shop. Some stores have a policy that they’ll take competitor’s coupons, or meet or beat competitor’s prices. Read the fine print, but that may be a way for you to get the best prices, and still be able to shop at your regular grocery store.
Be on the lookout for coupons. Look for coupons in the weekly sale ads or papers, and pay attention to the fliers the grocery stores mail you. Take note of the expiration dates, and any minimum purchase requirements so you can plan your lists accordingly. A Publix recently opened near us, and they seem to be in serious competition with Harris Teeter, so we’re getting coupons in the mail from both stores. My trick for remembering to actually use the coupons is to fold them around my debit card.
Don’t serve appetizers. I realize this one isn’t going to work for everyone, but it does for us. Our style of entertaining is very informal; it’s what we’re comfortable with, and it’s what works well with our house. We have a fairly small kitchen, and eating area as well, so we end up serving Thanksgiving (and most meals we host) buffet style, and we usually eat fairly quickly after guests start arriving. If we say 6:30, people are usually eating by 6:45. Buffet style makes it easier to get started if you’re still waiting for a few people to show up, so you don’t have hungry guests waiting around. There’s so much food already, and since we’re not sitting around waiting, it works for us.
Don’t serve alcohol. Again, I realize this choice isn’t for everyone, but it works for us. Cocktails, or even wine and beer, can get expensive quickly, so sticking with nonalcoholic beverages (tea, coffee, soda, etc) is an easy way to reduce spending.
Plan your menu carefully. I tend to go a little bit overboard when it comes to the Thanksgiving menu. In all honesty, not serving appetizers is about the only scaling down I’ve done when it comes to the menu now that we’re actually able to host Thanksgiving. Obviously, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that, but some things to keep in mind when deciding what and how much to prepare are the eating habits of your guests, whether or not you want leftovers, and whether or not you’re planning to send leftovers home with guests.
If most of your guests are vegetarians you probably don’t need 20 pounds of
turkey. If most of your guests prefer desserts other than pumpkin pie, you probably don’t need multiple pumpkin pies. Don’t feel like you have to make something no one loves just because it’s Thanksgiving, or that you can’t make something everyone loves because it’s not a traditional Thanksgiving dish. The important thing is that everyone is happy, able to spend time together, and enjoys a good meal.
If you’re the type to go overboard with cooking, and know you’re likely going to have enough leftovers to feed your entire neighborhood for a week, ask your guests to bring containers with them so they can take leftovers home. And know that you probably won’t be cooking for the rest of the weekend.
So what about you? What are your tips for hosting Thanksgiving on a budget? What are the must have parts for you? What are you willing to skip?
I’m not usually one for making many homemade gifts, other than food, but last year I started experimenting with making bath salts. I don’t think it gets much more relaxing than a nice long soak in a hot bath after a stressful day. Lavender oil is known for promoting relaxation and restful sleep, so lavender bath salts can really enhance the experience.
