My husband asked me this tonight. I had to think about my answer for a
while. Sure, there were things I liked
about being a kid. My parents spent a
lot of time with us, I didn’t have to make hard decisions, and I thought the
world would be a fair place when I grew up.
There were also a lot of things I didn’t like about being a
kid. I didn’t like being told what to do
all of the time, having most decisions made for me, the pressure of having to
be the golden child, or the feeling that most of my life was mapped out for me.
Overall, I have to say I’m happier as an adult than I was as
a kid. I like the fact that I can’t be
forced to go somewhere, or told who I can or cannot be friends with. I like knowing that my life is my own. I don’t have to live up to anyone’s
ideal.
Of course there are things that aren’t quite like I thought
they’d be. Going to work every day isn’t exciting, a mortgage can be very
stressful, and driving really isn’t all that fun. But the trade-off is worth it. Sure, there are stresses and problems, but
there’s freedom. I value the freedom
more than the ability to be care free.
So, yes, I liked being a kid, but I’m very glad childhood
lasts only a small portion of our lifespan.
I wouldn’t want to repeat it.
So what about you, did you like being a kid? Are you happier as an adult, or do you miss
childhood?
This is an interesting thing to ponder indeed. I think I liked being a kid although actually now that I think of it, it had its stressful moments as I was raised by a single mom who had been widowed young with three young children so she was constantly worried about money and this and that and as I got older I started taking more responsibility off of her, paying bills when I was 13, going grocery shopping with my siblings when we were 9/10 years old amongst other things. But it was fun not to have the responsibility of a daily job to go to and summers off :) But I do like being an adult, making my own decisions, spending my own money, etc. I'm in my 50s so I don't think a lot about my childhood, mainly when I'm reminiscing :)
ReplyDeletehope you are enjoying your weekend :)
betty
The summers off would still be nice to have. That was really nice and mature of you to help your mom out so much like that. I probably wouldn't have thought of this either if my husband hadn't asked me.
DeleteLike yourself there are things I loved about being a kid and things I disliked (school). Now that I am a grownup (?) there are also things I like and dislike. I guess what I really miss is the time frame I grew up in. No one age or stage in life is perfect, I have good memories and bad at every step of the way.
ReplyDeleteYou're right about there not being a perfect age or life stage. There are things that happened at most ages that I wouldn't give up for anything, and then are things I wouldn't repeat for anything.
DeleteWhat an interesting post! I am much happier as an adult--I get to forge my own path rather than have it mapped out for me. :)
ReplyDeleteThere is something liberating about choosing your own path.
DeleteYa know, my actual childhood only lasted until I was 8 and then my younger siblings came along and guess who got to take care of them! :P I think that's why I'm a teacher..I can still be a kid. :)
ReplyDeleteThat's a very short childhood. I bet that makes you a really fun teacher though.
DeleteCongrats on the blog awards from Gary, you seem to fully deserve them :). Kisses.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I just checked out your blog, it's great.
DeleteGreetings Danielle,
ReplyDeleteYou bring up some interesting thoughts with this. Personally, I had a rotten childhood. Yet, as an adult, I now savour life through the wisdom of my inner child. An inner child that realised how blessed I am as an adult.
I note the unikorna has alluded to a double award that is waiting for you, if you so wish, on my site. No pressure or obligation.
Fairly soon, I will be acknowledging the award you so kindly bestowed upon me.
In peace and good wishes, Gary :)
That's such a great attitude to have.
DeleteThank you for the award. I will be posting it soon.