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Thursday, July 30, 2026

Thursday 13: The Fairy Trail at Bullington Gardens – Part 1

I have wanted to visit the Fairy Trail at Bullington Gardens for years, but we kept missing it.  Every.  Single.  Year.  This year, though, I was determined to see it, so we went last Saturday.

It was so much better than I expected (and my expectations were high)! 

The trail is beautiful, and there’s so much to see.  So, for this Thursday 13, I’m going to take you along on the Fairy Trail.

1.    The magic begins at the entrance to the fairy trail.

2.    We’re reminded that we’re never too old for fairies.

3.    Little fairy doors are nestled in lots of the trees.



4.  Some are ground level.



5.    Some are reached by stairs or ladders.

6.    There’s even an elevator.

7.    You learn the fairy code along the way.


8.    Next is the International Church of Peace. 

9.    Everywhere, there are fairies going about their day.


10. There’s even a little fairy clothesline.


11. Some fairies are camping.


12. Look how cute the little fairy camper is!

13. There are fairy houses in all shapes and sizes. 





Join me next week as we continue along the fairy trail.  



Monday, July 27, 2026

My Quest for Water

Does it sometimes seem like it’s really hard to get everything together and get out the door on Monday morning?  

It does for me.  It seems like whenever something breaks or I leave the house without something I need, it happens on a Monday.  This brings me to today’s quest for water.

Shortly before leaving for work this morning, I filled up my water bottle and set it on the kitchen counter.  Then, I made my PB&J sandwich (one of my go-to choices when I didn’t pack or plan anything the night before) and packed it in my work bag. 

I arrived at work and unpacked my laptop and notebooks, but no water bottle.  It was still sitting on the kitchen counter.  Thus began my quest for water. 

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I went downstairs to the vending machine to buy a bottle of water.  

It was out of water.

Next, I walked to another building to buy a bottle of water from that vending machine. 

It was also out of water. 

My next stop was the cafeteria.  

I was finally able to buy a bottle of water!  

The elusive bottle of water!

Tomorrow, I will be double-checking my work bag to make sure I packed my water bottle! 

So, what about you?  Are you more prone to forgetting things on Monday?  

Here’s to the rest of the week being smooth for everyone! 

These have nothing to do with my quest for water, but they're pretty, so I wanted to share them.


Friday, July 24, 2026

Feline Friday: Sassy

For Feline Friday, all you have to do is post a picture, drawing, cartoon, or video of a cat.

This week, we’re going way back to my very first cat, Sassy.  My parents had a cat, Butterscotch, when I was born, but around the time I was nine years old, I started reading the Mandie books by Lois Gladys Leppard.  I was obsessed with them.  The main character had a white kitten named Snowball, and I decided I also needed a white kitten to name Snowball.  That’s when the begging for a kitten began.

My younger sister, Gabby, not to be outdone, decided that she also needed a kitten and that she wanted hers to be a Siamese kitten. 

We begged incessantly. 

Finally, one night, we were told to come into the kitchen because Mom’s friend, Pam, had brought a surprise for us.  It was a pet carrier, with two tiny little kittens (they each weighed 2.2 pounds) in it.  Unbeknownst to us, our parents had decided to let us have our kittens, but weren’t about to take us to an animal shelter, knowing we’d beg for ALL of the kittens.  So, they put the word out that they were looking for two kittens.  Pam got the two kittens from someone’s neighbor, and they were in pretty rough shape; malnourished, covered in fleas, etc.  But to us, they were perfect.

One of the kittens was in the front of the pet carrier, hissing at everyone, and the other one was cowering behind the one doing all of the hissing.

Gabby immediately announced that she wanted the hisser.  I wanted the one who was cowering. 

Gabby immediately named her kitten Koko.  I deliberated for almost two full days before naming mine Sassy. 

Koko was the adventurous one, always getting into everything.  By the time they were a few years old, Sassy was very calm and loved chilling out and being brushed. 

This was around the time that my parents decided to get birds, and we ultimately ended up with eight parakeets (that’s another story for another time). 

The difference in Koko and Sassy’s personalities really showed in their reactions to the birds.  Koko quite literally climbed a wall in an effort to get to the birds.  Sassy could not have cared less about them.  Don’t worry, none of the birds were harmed to get this picture.  My dad set it up to demonstrate just how lazy (his word, not mine, I thought Sassy was perfect) he was. 

Sassy looked at the birds, but that was pretty much it.  She liked her food prepared and served in a dish, thank you very much. 

Koko and Sassy both lived to be 15 years old and were the cats that set Gabby and me on our way to being cat ladies.  In some ways, Gabby has stuck with choosing the feisty cat, and I’ve stuck with choosing the scared cat. 

Incidentally, over thirty years later, I’ve still never had a solid white cat, and Gabby has still never had a Siamese cat, though neither one of us thought Koko and Sassy were anything less than perfect.  

Thursday, July 23, 2026

Thursday 13: A Chemo Angels and Senior Angels Update

1.   Since it has been over two years since my last Chemo Angels/Senior Angels update, I decided it’s definitely time for another one.

2.    If you’re not familiar with Chemo Angels and Senior Angels, you can read my long post about them here.  (Other updates are here and here if you’re interested.)  The short version is that they’re programs that match patients undergoing chemotherapy and seniors (both known as buddies) with volunteers (known as card angels or chemo angels) who send them a card or letter at least once a week.  It’s strictly mail-based, and volunteers are matched with buddies based on interests.  I started volunteering with both programs as a card angel in 2019 (I did take about five weeks off right after Hurricane Helene hit), and I absolutely love doing it.

3.    As usual, with this kind of post, the photos are just a random assortment.

4.    Unfortunately, this update includes some sad news, so I will share that first, so we can end on a happier note.  My senior buddy (called Agnes for blogging) passed away in October last year.  I knew it was coming (she was in her 90s and was in hospice care), but I had been writing to her almost since I first signed up.  (I signed up in August of 2019 and started writing to Agnes in November of 2019).  I cried when I got the email and cried again when her daughter sent me a very sweet letter letting me know that she had passed away and saying that she enjoyed my cards right up to the end. 

5.    The other senior buddy I had (called Callie for blogging) also passed away last year.  She had Stage IV cancer, so it wasn’t a surprise, but it was still sad.  Her husband found me on Facebook and sent me a very sweet message. 

6.    I’m sure you’re ready for some happier news in this update, so here’s a happy ending for you.  The teenage boy (called Sam for blogging) who I was writing to the last time I posted an update, finished chemo and is now cancer-free.

7.    Whenever one of your buddies finishes the program for any reason (hopefully for finishing their treatment), they always ask if you want to get back on the list for another assignment.  That works well for me since I usually get a new buddy fairly quickly and can stay in the habit of writing to someone. 


8.    Chemo Angels had a shortage of volunteers last year, so I’ve cycled through a lot of buddies since my last update.  At one point, I got a new buddy just two days after a previous buddy finished the program.

9.    Four of the buddies that I had since my last update have written back to me.  They’re not required to write back, and volunteers are told repeatedly not to expect or ask our buddies to write back, so it always feels really special to get a letter from one of my buddies. 

10. Fortunately, all four of those buddies have finished their treatment and were cancer-free at the end of the treatment.


11. I currently have two relatively new buddies.  We’ll call them Adam and Josie for blogging.  I’ve only been writing to Adam for about six weeks and to Josie for about two weeks. 

12. I had another buddy finish this week, so I’m back on the waiting list for a third buddy.  I seem to stay at three buddies pretty consistently.  (I would be allowed to have more if I wanted to, but more than three gets to be hard for me to keep up with.  I’ve had four before when there’s a real shortage of volunteers, but I prefer to stay at three.) 

13.  As I’ve said before, I learned about Chemo Angels when Bijoux and Betty shared their experiences on their blogs, and I’m so glad they did.  Volunteering with them feels like the perfect fit for me.  Now, though, I am especially grateful to them for sharing their experiences because I have a friend going through chemotherapy, and I told her about Chemo Angels.  She signed up as a recipient and absolutely loves getting her angel mail.  Seeing how much joy it brings her has definitely made me want to continue volunteering with them indefinitely.  

Thursday, July 16, 2026

Thursday 13: Catching Up

Since I haven’t posted anything since March, a Thursday 13 seemed like a great way to catch up on what has been going on since March.

1.    A cat picture is always a good way to start one of these, so enjoy this one of Mortimer.


2.     We have hot water!  The water heater installation was finished on time, and it has been worth every bit of disruption.  Showers that don’t become progressively colder are so much more pleasant!

3.    We did a lot of decluttering while we were getting the house back in order after the water heater installation.  We reorganized some things and got rid of a lot of stuff. 

4.    Unfortunately, I forgot to take pictures of the process, but here’s one of Theodore in one of the storage cubes

5.    Speaking of Theodore, he had a vet visit for a cough last week.  After x-rays, they determined that he most likely aspirated some fluid while coughing up a hairball and developed a slight infection.  He’s on Laxatone for hairballs and got an antibiotic shot for the infection.  He goes for a follow-up in two weeks, but has already stopped coughing and seems to be feeling fine.


6.    Part of why I haven’t posted in a while is that I was working on a big project at work.  It was the second part of the December project.  Our deadline got moved up by about six weeks, so everyone had to put in a lot of extra hours for a while.  It is finished, though! 

7.    As usual, Caroline felt the need to be heavily involved in my work. 


8.    I’ve learned not to say I’m expecting any kind of break from projects with tight deadlines!  There isn’t one at the moment, but I’m expecting at least a couple more this year. 

9.    It hasn’t been all work during my blogging break.  We have done some fun things, including going to Greenville to see a performance from the Greenville Gay Men’s Chorus.  It was a great show!  I haven’t been able to find a video of the show, but here’s the promo video.


10.   The groundhogs are back!

11.   There are at least three baby groundhogs this year.  I just love them so much.

12.   I’m working on catching up with everyone’s blogs, so I’ll be visiting you soon.

13.   A cat picture is always a good way to end a post, so enjoy this one of Charlie.