Monday, June 26, 2023

A Catch-Up Post

I thought a catch-up post was in order since it has been almost two months since I posted anything.

There hasn’t been anything especially interesting or exciting going on.  We’ve just been busy, mostly with work.  We’ve been stuck in a rut of not leaving work on time/taking work home with us (sometimes the whole “do more with less” gets really out of control), which hasn’t left time for much else. 

Most of this year has been that way, and it has felt like we’re stuck in a cycle of just trying to make it through the week only to arrive at the weekend exhausted and behind on all of the life stuff that got put off during the week.  When that happens, we seem to spend the entire weekend trying to catch up and getting ready for the next week of work. 

We both struggle a little bit with setting boundaries, so that’s something we’re making a real effort to work on.  We’re also trying to work on better time management.  I think better time management will follow if we get better at boundaries.  You can’t really manage time that you’ve allowed others to take control of. 

Hopefully, this means we’ll have a little more time for things we enjoy, which for me includes writing blog posts and visiting your blogs.

We both still have a long way to go when it comes to setting boundaries with work and leaving on time.  Hopefully, we’ll see some improvements soon.

We did finally make a plan and stick to it for this past weekend, though, and it was wonderful.  We bought tickets in advance for a Saturday afternoon showing of The Little Mermaid.  It’s one of my absolute favorite Disney cartoons, and I really wanted to see the live-action movie. 

It was so good!  It was just different enough from the cartoon not to be predictable but stayed true enough to the cartoon to be familiar.  There were some new songs that were great.  And I absolutely loved Melissa McCarthy as Ursula. 

In other catch-up news, I took a CPR class.  I took a compressions-only class years ago but never a full CPR class.  I had the chance to take one with Nick, so I went for it.  I’m always nervous in medical settings, so going through the class with Nick made me feel a lot better about it.  I did a lot better than I expected to with chest compressions, and I learned how to use a bag valve mask.  I still hope I never, ever have to do CPR on a person, but at least I know I can. 

It was neat to take the class with Nick, too, because even though he wasn’t teaching it (he’s not a CPR instructor, but has plenty of CPR experience after spending over 20 years in the fire department), he was helping people who were struggling during the practice and practicals.  It was neat to watch him teach other people and, in some cases, just help people find the confidence to do it. 

So, what about you?  What have you been up to for the past couple of months?  Are you good at maintaining a good work/life balance?  How do you do it?  Have you seen the new version of The Little Mermaid? 

7 comments:

  1. Good to hear from you. It's so easy to let work takeover. Sometimes, extra time is needed at work, but setting boundaries is important so that doesn't happen all of the time. Good for you for making an effort to do that. We haven't been to the movies in a very long time. Maybe I'll get some friends and we will go to see the Little Mermaid.

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  2. So important to take a CPR class. I took CPR and other first aid classes when my kids were young, as I was always nervous about them choking, etc.

    You guys aren’t alone in trying to find Work/Life balance. My husband is on his laptop every night and weekend doing work. A lot of younger people that work under him keep leaving for jobs that can be done from home. He can’t do anything about his corporation’s policies. It’s frustrating.

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  3. Welcome back :)
    I think it's pretty common to let work overflow and take over to much of our time. Good for you for recognizing it and taking some steps to improve.
    And congrats on completing the CPR course - important info that you hopefully never have to use!

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  4. It helps to have a job that I can't take home, although when I'm doing a long-term subbing gig, I end up having to plan/grade, so then I am. Sometimes you just have to choose to not finish everything you have and let that be okay. I'm sure things will slow down for you sooner or later. I hope. Take care.

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  5. It is probably time to set boundaries if you are taking work home or staying late to finish. I wish you more time for yourself and Nick.

    It sounds like Nick would be a good CPR instructor. Great idea to do the course with him!

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  6. Work-life balance is hard but setting boundaries is well worth it if you can. Well done on the CPR! When I first heard about the Little Mermaid I thought it was Halle BERRY as Ariel and thought, "that might have worked years ago when she was younger -- but she's way too old!" OK -- I know now!

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  7. Glad to hear you're working on finding a better work-life balance. It is hard, but we try our very best to be healthy in that way. How awesome that you took a CPR class with Nick! :)

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